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NEEDING
AN OPHTHALMOLOGIST
By
Mark Grant
One night during a thunderstorm, a
mother was tucking her young son into bed. She was about to turn the light
off when he asked in a trembling voice, “Mommy, will you stay with me
all night?” The mother gave him a warm, reassuring hug and said
tenderly, “I can’t, Dear. I have to sleep in Daddy’s room.” After
a brief pause, the boy replied, “The big sissy!” Let’s look beyond
the humor of this story for a moment and think about the child’s
reaction. His fearful plea was understandable, yet his response was very
human. Most of us can easily see the faults of others but fiercely resist
admitting the truth about ourselves.
This
was exactly what Jesus talks about in Matthew the seventh chapter. “Judge
not, that you be not judged. For with what judgment you judge, you will be
judged; and with the measure you use, it will be measured back to you. And
why do you look at the speck in your brother’s eye, but do not consider
the plank in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, “Let me
remove the speck from your eye”; and look, a plank is in your own eye?
Hypocrite! First remove the plank from your own eye, and then you will see
clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye”
(Matt. 7:1-5).
These
verses have really been misunderstood and often abused by those who resent
being corrected for their sinful living. The word “judge”
has a broad application and can mean
“to judge, to give a verdict, to form an opinion,
distinguish between, evaluate, to condemn.”
Most scholars agree that the word used in our text means, “to
condemn.” The best way to understand the meaning of a scripture is
to look at its parallel. Luke says, Judge
not, and you shall not be judged. Condemn not, and you shall not be
condemned. Forgive and you will be forgiven” (Luke 6:37).
Thayer explains, “judge”
to mean, “of those who judge severely (unfairly), finding fault with
this or that in others, Mt. vii. 1; Lk. vi. 37; Ro. ii. 1.” What is
sad, but very true, is that there are Christian’s today who tend to be
very critical, and are often condemning and love to find fault with
others. Has a brother ever judged you before they’ve gotten all the
facts? Have brethren ever jumped to conclusions without even giving you
the courtesy to listen to both sides of a story. Solomon wrote, “He
who answers a matter before he hears it, It is folly and shame to him”
(Prov. 18:13). Solomon teaches a basic principle for making a sound
decision is the importance of hearing all the facts before we give our
opinion on a matter, or you could bring folly and shame upon yourself.
Solomon also said, “The first to plead
his case seems just, Until another comes and examines him”
(Prov. 18:17; NASV). The second thing Solomon teaches about making sound
decisions is that no matter how reasonable one side of an argument may
sound, the impression is usually a bit different when the other side is
heard. Asking a few questions is always good advice in the process before
we form our opinions. Before you judge any situation, be careful that
you’ve got all the facts and have heard both sides of an argument.
All
of us as Christians have the right to make moral and spiritual judgments.
Jesus taught us to expose false prophets (Matt. 7:15-23). Paul taught that
the church must discipline flagrant sin among its members (1 Cor. 5:1-12).
Christians are to settle their own personal disputes rather than going to
secular courts (1 Cor. 6:1-6). Christian leaders are to mature and
recognize the difference between right and wrong and do what is right
(Heb. 5:12-14). It is conclusive then, that “judge”
in this verse is not a prohibition against deciding between right and
wrong but is used in the sense of a harsh, overcritical, condemnatory
judgment. The Greek word for “judge”
is “krino” which has the same force in Romans 2:1;
14:10-13, and James 4:11-12, indicating that the type of judging forbidden
in this verse is that of presuming to determine salvation, or telling
others “you’re going to hell.” Christ did not even do this
while he was on the earth. Jesus said, “I
did not come to judge the world but to save the world”
(John 12:47). The exercise of such judgment is all the more sinful in that
it is premature. Paul said, “judge
nothing before the time, until the Lord comes” (1 Cor.
4:5). Regrettably, some still insist on their right to determine salvation
in others that does nothing more than usurp the role of God. Jesus said,
“But I will show you whom you should
fear; Fear Him who, after He has killed, has power to cast into hell; yes
I say to you, fear Him!” (Luke 12:5). James said, “There
is one Lawgiver, who is able to save and to destroy. Who are you to judge
another?” (James
4:12). There is only One who has power to cast and condemn someone into
hell and those whose flagrant violations of “judge
not, that you be not judged” have wrought considerable
damage to the church.
To
further understand Matthew 7:1 you also need to take it in the context of
the surrounding verses. “For with what
judgment you judge, you will be judged; and with the measure you use, it
will be measured back to you” (Matt. 7:2). Again, Jesus
is not forbidding Christians from forming opinions as to what is right and
wrong. Jesus himself taught, “Do not
judge according to appearance, but judge with righteous judgment”
(John7: 24). Jesus does admonish Christians not to condemn with severity
or hasty judgments that are based on jealousy, suspicion, envy, or hate.
One should judge another, as he would wish to be judged if he is going to
follow the Golden Rule. If our attitude is mixed with pride and
self-righteousness, our words will come back to haunt us when we stand
before God. What we say may be true, but the way we say it must always be
with humility and a sense of our own shortcomings. “There
is one who speaks like the piercing of a sword, But the tongue of the wise
promotes health” (Prov. 12:18). All of us as Christians
need to realize that we will be judged or condemned with the same degree
of severity, both by man and more importantly God, that we pass on others.
Our own standard of judging others will be applied to us. Our judging
others is not to be driven by our own insecurity and pride, but rather by
the same compassion and mercy God shows toward us. James wrote, “For
judgment is without mercy to the one who has shown no mercy. Mercy
triumphs over judgment” (James 2:13). Jesus tells how the
unforgiving servant himself was judged with the same severity as he had
judged others, and ends: “So My heavenly
Father also will do to you if each of you, from his heart, does not
forgive his brother his trespasses” (Matt. 18:35).
Christians are to encourage one another to stir up loving attitudes and
actions (Heb. 10:24,25). But we are all growing in Christ, so we must
never judge each other in a proud or haughty way. Instead, we should
lovingly build up one another. Any other attitude reveals a self-righteous
heart.
The
final point that Jesus makes about judging is the need for
self-examination. Jesus said, “And why do
you look at the speck in your brother’s eye, but do not consider the
plank in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, “Let me
remove the speck from your eye”; and look, a plank is in your eye?
Hypocrite! First remove the plank from your own eye, and then you will see
clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye”
(Matt. 7:3-5). Jesus is teaching the importance of judging ourselves
before we judge others. The speck and the plank represent the difference
between that, which is tiny and almost invisible, compared to that which
is obvious and blatant. The meaning is, that we are swift and sharp to
judge the small offences in others, but refuse to consider the offences in
ourselves. Instead of being quick to point out the sins of others, we need
to judge our own sins--the “planks” in our own lives first. When we
remove the “plank” from
our own eye we will be able to see clearly and then we can advance to
correct the faults of others. It’s a painful process. Yes, it may even
hurt. But it will make us much more patient and sensitive toward others
who have the same problem overcoming sin as ourselves. Jesus is teaching
us that the best way to judge the imperfections of others is to be free
from greater ones ourselves. Then there will be no hypocrisy in our
conduct. To judge any other way, we may find ourselves needing an
ophthalmologist.
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